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Gay San Francisco Luxury Hotels
All of our favorite luxury hotels in San Francisco are in SoMa, the lively hub of culture and colour in the city and a great destination for gay travelers
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Gay San Francisco Luxury Hotels
Hotel Spero
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405 Taylor Street, San Francisco
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Short walk to LGBTQ+ nightlife in the heart of Union Square.
Hotel Spero is a gay-friendly boutique hotel in San Francisco's Union Square, placing guests within easy reach of the city's LGBTQ+ nightlife, theatres, shopping and famous neighbourhoods. Housed in a historic building, the hotel pairs classic architecture with contemporary interiors, creating a stylish base for exploring the city on foot.
Rooms and suites feature plush bedding, complimentary Wi-Fi, 50-inch TVs, premium toiletries, coffee makers, in-room safes and generous workspaces. Guests can also enjoy complimentary morning coffee in the lobby and 24-hour access to the fitness centre, equipped with cardio machines, free weights and strength-training equipment. The hotel is also dog-friendly, with a minimal fee.
Bar Esper, which is newly renovated and reopened, serves breakfast, dinner and drinks in an inviting setting, combining Portuguese and Japanese coastal flavours with fresh local ingredients.
Ritz-Carlton
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600 Stockton St, San Francisco
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Central location. Near Union Square shops and The Castro gay bars.
Marvel at the incredibly grand interiors, chandeliers, fireplaces and 1,000 thread counts - Oh my!
The hotel hosts the country’s first 'Spa L’Occitane', featuring tailored treatments for Bay Area residents like their 'Tech Tension Relief' designed for the wear and tear that befalls Silicon Valley workers.
Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco
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757 Market Street,, San Francisco
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Near Union Square. Great for shopping, gay scene & nightlife.
The San Francisco arm of the upscale hotel brand. The Four Seasons SF is as luxurious as all of its sisters. With its very central location, you're close to everything, including The Castro and Folsom St. - ideal for gay travelers.
The interiors were designed with the city in mind, with soothing grey and pops of gold, paying homage to San Fran's infamous fogs and rich history.
The hotel has a private health club, Equinox, where you can enjoy personal massages and spa treatments.
The St Regis San Francisco
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125 3rd St, San Francisco
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Great pool & spa. Luxury choice. Near shopping and gay nightlife district.
This innovative high-rise hotel sits in the centre of South of Market, close to shops, tourist hotspots and a 15 minute drive from The Castro and in SoMa, two gay districts of San Francisco.
The St Regis features an Olympic-sized saltwater pool, multi-level Remède Spa, jacuzzi, sauna, steam room. But you may also want to check out the local gay saunas in the area.
Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero
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222 Sansome St,, San Francisco
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Incredible views. Easy access to gay scene. Luxury choice.
The hotels central location make this a perfect stay for those interested in attractions such as Fisherman's Wharf, Union Square and the Ferry Building. All are within easy reach of the hotel.
Loews Regency offers spectacular views of the San Francisco Bay and city. Luxurious spacious guest rooms provide great views of the Golden Gate Bridge and marbled bathrooms.
Guests are welcome to unwind with a drink in the lounge bar or relax in the spa. The hotel's restaurant offers Californian style dishes for you to enjoy and a wide choice of dining options can be found nearby.
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Hotel Zeppelin San Francisco
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545 Post Street, San Francisco, CA 94102,, San Francisco
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Near Union Square. Boutique Styling.
This chic boutique hotel near Union Square combines polished luxury with a quirky twist. The rooms are like nothing you've ever seen, with pops of classic references in a modern setting - a great representation of the Bay Area.
Zeppelin's location is convenient for gay travelers, as The Castro gay district - is within 10 minutes away. OMG dance club is even closer.
Onsite, there's an arcade room for those wishing to let out their inner child, and a light and airy gym for those wishing to let out their inner beast.
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